Often times we worry about what others think or how successful our career or lives can be.
What about taking the time to deeply consider the fruits of your efforts and what kind of legacy you can leave. As a constant people pleaser, this to me seems like a much better focus on what I could do to impact rather than overworking to change the mindsets of others.
Each one of us as the capacity to do great things. Far beyond our own capabilities or beliefs. In letting go and allowing yourself to learn and experience new things, something cool will happen. New ideas will be born and you will start to have an innovating and dreaming about what is possible rather than listening to what is not possible.
Commit to making a a difference and what you see as your impact is most likely a lot far reaching than you could ever imagine.